Why Black Women Now REGRET Going To CHURCH!

Why Black Women Now REGRET Going To CHURCH!

In this video, Oshay Duke Jackson reacts to a viral clip of a 43-year-old single mother who expresses deep regret about her life. She realizes she's become one of "those" single, lonely church women she never thought she would be. Oshay uses this clip to explain why he believes the Black church is a major contributor to this outcome. He argues that pastors have intentionally created a female-centric environment, focusing on women's brunches and conferences because women are the primary source of tithes. In his view, this has pushed men away, leaving churches with a severe gender imbalance. He claims pastors then sell a "fairy tale" to these women, telling them to just "wait on the Lord" for their "Boaz" to arrive, which keeps them hopeful and paying tithes, even though there are no men in the pews to date. The video also includes clips from other creators who argue that the church teaches women to be passive and just pray, rather than putting in the practical effort to find a partner (as they would to find a job). Oshay concludes that this combination of a man-deficient environment, bad advice from pastors, and women rejecting the few good men who are there is what leads to this widespread loneliness and regret. #OshayDukeJackson #Church #BlackChurch #Dating #Singleness #Regret #Commentary

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